Don't worry about those who talk behind your back. They're behind you for a reason.
Don't worry about those who talk behind your back. They're behind you for a reason.
Don't worry about those who talk behind your back. They're behind you for a reason.
People will lie, gossip, and talk behind your back. Humans have always done this and probably always will; that is part of human nature. Only those who have disciplined themselves to be self-controlled and honorable can be trusted not to talk behind your back; with others, you should expect it.
When this happens to you, and it will happen to you, don't worry about it. They are talking about you behind your back because they are behind you. They are jealous of where you are, and either want to be you or want to bring you down to their level, which is much, much lower than you want to be, I can assure you. People like this give no thought to honor or to what's right; they simply take pleasure in malice and have nothing better to do with their small lives.
Just keep on doing your thing and living life your way. You don't have time to waste with people like that. If they are supposed to be your friends, remove them from your life. If they are family, have little to do with them. If they are strangers, ignore them completely.
They are talking behind your back because they do not have the courage, character, or the honor to say what they are saying to your face. These are not the kind of people you want to spend your time with, just move on, knowing that they will probably always be behind you, and will probably always be talking from back there where their ilk resides. Don't let these bored, malcontented, small people change who you are or cause you to lose sight of your overall objectives; live your life, you way - period
하하하. 흔들리지 않고 피는 꽃이 어디 있으랴.
남의 가십거리가 되지 않고 사는 사람이 어디 있으랴.
시가 생각나고 그 뜻에 맞는 말도 생각나네요.
사람들의 눈에 뜨이는 사람은 반드시 질투의 대상이 되지요.
그리곤 곧 온갖 모함과 매도에 시달리게 됩니다.
말 그대로 그런 사람은 내 인생에서 KICK OUT해버리면 편안~ 합니다.
좋은 사람들과 정 나눌 시간도 모자라는데 어떻게 이런 감정 낭비를 하겠습니까. ㅎㅎ